Kids are fun ain’t they? Acting like they know everything. My son is a prime example of being Mr Independent. I admire it, although it can be frustrating at times. I know I should embrace it, but maybe with a few boundaries.
Characteristics of an Independent Child
My son is always testing the limits. Tell him not to do something and guess what? He doesn’t listen and does it anyways. I hate seeing him get hurt but sometimes that’s how they need to learn. After while maybe they will think we might actually know a thing or two! He doesn’t listen just to be naughty, it’s usually because he’s trying to figure something out or very curious about it. I think as adults we forget how big and amazing this world is to these little eyes. They want to explore, and if it’s not going to hurt them, why should we stop them?
A funny example that happens at our house, is something as simple as teeth brushing. Usually parents want to teach them how to brush them correctly or do it for them until they reach a certain age. My two year son has to do it himself. I always tell him we “have to get the cookies out”. It makes it fun for him. He brushes first, and then I ask him if I can make sure he got all the cookies out. Then he lets me have the toothbrush.
Another one is when he is thirsty. He’s fine with open normal cups now but has to help! So he picks out the juice, milk, or water and has to hold his cup, and help with the container or faucet it’s coming from. At first I was like oh goodness this is going to be a huge mess. But I let him hold his cup, I pour the liquid and he usually has his other hand on the container. We just make sure it’s only half way full and go very slowly. Works for us.
The fun about raising independent children is that you can watch them grow and learn right in front of you. They will always need their momma but I almost feel like he’s trying to impress me. He wants me to see how good he can accomplish things. And what kid doesn’t like their parent telling them how good they are doing something or how proud of them we are? Win-win!
Here might be some fun tips on how to teach independence!
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